You may have heard the saying before ” Love yourself People will love You” or “One must love themselves before another can love them”. I heard this quote from a person who is no more in this world, he left this world in a very early age but this quote is inspiring me since years. That was the time when I used to think like why nobody loves me as I was a damn!! Attention seeker!! Or you can say little selfish too, always wanted someone to be at my side, but the reality was different whosoever were in my life they all were busy enough to give me proper care or attention. I used to think like no one in this world loves me living in this world is not worth at all. But this person gave me one mantra start loving yourself people automatically will love you. From that day I started loving myself and I can see the great change in my life. The reason is when you are unhappy with who you are, how your inner self sees the world in the same manner, if you feel out of sync with your subconscious mind and unconnected with who you really are…. Then how can you possibly feel 100% connected to another human being?
As being a human being we always expect love, care, attention from others but we never think of what we are giving to our self. Is we are giving the proper attention to our state of mind, do we care of our own thoughts or feelings, if we can’t take care of our feeling then how we can expect from others understand our thoughts. And when someone is unable to understand our inner thought we only blame them, but we have to stop playing this blame game ,You cannot be comfortable with other people or their company , Until unless you are comfortable with yourself.. You have to be comfortable with your own company and with being on your own.
What I want to convey is- you have to be happy with yourself. You have to be happy spending time with yourself… in your own company. You have to value yourself and hold yourself in high self-worth. You have to LOVE yourself… and I know a lot of people would find it very hard to admit they love themselves as in society we are continually squashed down being told “Not to have a big ego” But you have to love yourself – otherwise other people will find it hard to love you in the full sense of the word. You have to value yourself as a person, as an individual, as a living being on this earth that has full freedom to live his/her life.
Because at the end of the day – you are the most important person in your life. Some of you might disagree with that statement as say that no… your family, friends, kids, whoever are more important than you would hold yourself… but you are wrong, because if you are not happy… then it will without a doubt filter through your body language and they will know – which in turn will make them unhappy. If you don’t care enough about yourself and your life, if you are not here in mind or body… then again you will not be able to do anything for the people in this world that you love. So do it for them… and do it for yourself and start loving yourself today…. It will make every relationship in your life so much better and make you all feel alive again!
That`s the mantra for living A life A Wonderful Life !!!
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